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The Gripps have a dog named "Deuce." Deuce’s great obsession in life is
to chase down a ball and bring it back to the human who threw it for
him.
Deuce does not know how to give up this obsession. Deuce will chase
balls until he drops, literally.
Many of us tend to be a lot like Deuce. We don’t know how to rest. We
are obsessed with work. Our mantra is, "I am what I do." We work at our
jobs, we work at our homes, we work at the church. Stop working, and we
can feel lost. Somebody asks us how we’re doing and our habitual
response is, "Oh, I’m so busy." In this culture, being overly busy to
the point of exhaustion is generally considered the mark of a successful
life.
When God gave the ten commandments, do you know which one came in at
number 3? "Keep the Sabbath holy." It comes before such things as "Do
not murder," "Do not steal," "Do not commit adultery", "Do not bear
false witness."
This can seem odd. Why is so important to make room for regular rest?
The reason, I think, is that without true rest for soul and body, our
lives get out of balance, and we become susceptible to all those other
life destroying behaviors: violence, envy, resentment, dishonesty. God
does not want us to be exhausted. God orders us, in fact, to enter
regularly into a deep restfulness.
Think about how you feel when you are really tired. I don’t know what
you feel like, but I tend to feel hostile, irritable, jealous. I am
convinced that the phenomenon of road rage is consequence of people
being chronically exhausted.
God wired our bodies with the rhythm of work and rest in mind. Somewhere
I learned about our bodies being wired with two parallel nervous
systems:
one called the "sympathetic system," and it is that part that is wired
to respond to danger, mobilizing our energy for sudden action. The other
is called the "para-sympathetc system," which is the system that is
activated when the threat has subsided; it builds our bodies back up. In
our fast-paced, frantic world, the problem is that many of us experience
life as a constant crisis, getting stuck with our sympathetic systems in
high gear, and our renewing system, the parasympathetic system, never
gets a chance to restore our bodies’ vitality.
When we don’t get real rest time, our immune system becomes compromised,
and we end up getting sick. Its as though our bodies are saying, "Since
you couldn’t choose rest for yourself, I will force you to take a time
of rest."
It says in Genesis that we human beings were made good -- in the "image
and likeness of God", in fact. When we look inward, many of us don’t see
much that seems especially good. When we pause our frantic running, what
we first tend to be aware of is the irritability, resentment, anxiety
and jealousy that arises in our exhaustion.
Praying for people in need can easily feel like just another obligation,
something we "should do", but don’t especially want to do. A chore
placed upon us by the taskmaster god. But an interesting thing happens
when we give ourselves opportunity to truly enter into Sabbath Rest: We
are surprised to encounter a deep and abiding love.
Every Wednesday morning, we hold a healing prayer meeting in the prayer
chapel. We begin with a time of sharing of prayer concerns, and then I
lead our group into a time of deep meditative restfulness. We
intentionally let ourselves breathe more deeply, slowly. Our need to be
in control begins to fall away, and we become aware of God doing
something through us, rather than us doing something ourselves. We
become aware of a deep compassion -- the very compassion of God -- and
praying for others becomes something we want to do spontaneously, not a
dutiful labor. We recognize that at the very depths of creation is the
good love of God. We come away from this time of praying for others
feeling not exhausted, but renewed.
In the kindness of Jesus,
Pastor Jeff |
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